Every one falls in love... Sometimes the experiences are cherishing and sometimes not so cherishing... Irrespective if the fact that whether it lasts/or is cherishable or not, it leaves a mark, a mark that is not only irreversible, but a mark that that keeps reminding the individual about the good, not so good and the not so bad times of "union". The union that I refer to here is a state of mental and physical being such that the energy levels of the two balance out or in other words, reach an equilibrium by means of compensating for each others energy levels to reach an optimal level. This optimum level I assume to be a constant and the phase or period required to attain this equilibrium which i will from now on call the meta-phase of a relationship, is where the balance is being attempted to be reached; it is not so surprising that this phase is commonly known and is by a term called "compromise" which is a rather common word which we use in our day to day life which also means reaching agreements...
The success of a relationship depends on the magnitude or the length of this meta-phase where the individuals are assessing one another and derive mental calculations relating to the
probabilities of success that the balance in energies may be reached. And like any other meta-phase, if the duration of this phase is longer than the 'critical time' the probabilities of a success slenderize.
All this while I have had been talking about the couple as an isolated system which is not affected by any other external entity, which is never the case... which wasn't the case even with Adam n Eve... thus we have to take into account the possible effects of external forces। These external forces can be classified under three different categories... catalysts, retardants and the neutrals. As the names suggest these entities would influence the couple on subject in ways beyond imagination, and yet again, the same phenomenon of interaction as described above takes place... where either a balance is reached depending upon individual energy levels or the meta-phase lasts long enough that a compromise is not reachable; thus depending on the influence of the individuals in question the boat of love is steered... Further it is also important to note that the influence of external forces also depends on the number of individuals involved and their respective levels of energy...
Thus in a nut shell it would not be wrong in saying that love like any other phenomenon can be explained, just that we need to know the ingredients... and the ingredients in this case are the number of elements involved and their respective energy levels...
The success of a relationship depends on the magnitude or the length of this meta-phase where the individuals are assessing one another and derive mental calculations relating to the
probabilities of success that the balance in energies may be reached. And like any other meta-phase, if the duration of this phase is longer than the 'critical time' the probabilities of a success slenderize.
All this while I have had been talking about the couple as an isolated system which is not affected by any other external entity, which is never the case... which wasn't the case even with Adam n Eve... thus we have to take into account the possible effects of external forces। These external forces can be classified under three different categories... catalysts, retardants and the neutrals. As the names suggest these entities would influence the couple on subject in ways beyond imagination, and yet again, the same phenomenon of interaction as described above takes place... where either a balance is reached depending upon individual energy levels or the meta-phase lasts long enough that a compromise is not reachable; thus depending on the influence of the individuals in question the boat of love is steered... Further it is also important to note that the influence of external forces also depends on the number of individuals involved and their respective levels of energy...
Thus in a nut shell it would not be wrong in saying that love like any other phenomenon can be explained, just that we need to know the ingredients... and the ingredients in this case are the number of elements involved and their respective energy levels...
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